A marriage without sex is a sign of something serious and wrong in the marriage. This condition is not something that can be discussed with colleagues or close friends, so it is not realized by many people.
Intimacy is a big part of marriage and sex is one way to strengthen the emotional ties, affirming a sense of being loved and loved and nurtured and maintain.
If living together without having any sexual intimacy, then that person is basically just a 'friend' or 'roommate' even though both are married to each other. These conditions also make a person needs not being met.
Therefore undergo marriage without sex is possible. Many things can contribute to this problem, as quoted from Helium, Tuesday (3/5/2011), namely:
Health problemsThere are many diseases that can cause a person to lose the desire to have sex, and some drugs are known to kill libido or difficulty during sex. If someone is married without sexual intercourse, one way around that is to consult a doctor to find out the cause and honest.
Past traumaIf you've ever experienced sexual harassment in the past, it will create problems in their sex lives. If the person does not resolve the trauma emotionally and physically then he will not be ready to have sexual intercourse despite being married. In this case a psychologist or therapist can help.
Anger and Aggression passiveSome people can resist sex because angry or unhappy with their partner. If this be the reason for two people to marry without the sex, then there is an indication that hidden in the relationship.
Like same-sex (homosexual)Some people are forced to marry someone of the opposite sex to avoid disapproval from family, friends or the general public and cover up his sexual status.
Lack of confidenceIt would be difficult for someone to have sex with someone who is not trusted. If one or both of them have no mutual trust or destroy the trust that is given, then the marriage is very likely to be filled without sexual relations.
High fatigue levelThe majority of people work long hours and go home in a state of fatigue, especially if there is further work to be done at home. This condition will be very exhausting passion that made him no longer to have sex. Solutions that can be done is to try to set aside time together and forget all the work or other activities.
